2026
Sex frequency highest among married women
Some people believe that married adults have less sex than their unmarried peers. However, data from the General Social Survey suggests the opposite, especially among women. Married women are significantly more likely to have frequent sex than their unmarried counterparts, with 53% of married mothers and 56% of married childless women reporting having sex at least once a week. On the other hand, only 36% of unmarried mothers and 31% of unmarried childless women reported the same. It turns out marriage does not mean dead bedrooms.
Americans are speaking 28% fewer words
People are talking less. A recent study found that the average number of words spoken in person has fallen from around 17,500 per day in 2005 to 12,700 in 2019—a 28% decline. The authors note that this decrease coincided with a massive uptake in digital communication, but the gains there were not enough to offset the losses in face-to-face communication. The decline likewise corresponds with a “loneliness epidemic,” suggesting that digital communication is an inadequate substitute for in-person connection.
Class differences in happiness among men
Unhappiness is on the rise for American men, and the working class is getting hardest hit. Recent data show that 27% of men between 25 and 44 without a college degree report being unhappy, a 12-percentage-point increase from the 2010s. By comparison, 17% of men with a college degree in this age range report being unhappy. IFS research shows that some of this class disparity is explained by differing childhood experiences. Working-class men between 25 and 44 were 11 percentage points less likely than their college-educated peers to have had a good relationship with their father, and 8 percentage points less likely to have had a good relationship with their mother growing up.
Married women feel safer than single women
Single young women feel much less safe than married women. In a new survey by the Institute for Family Studies and the Wheatley Institute, 18% of single women ages 25–34 say they feel physically unsafe most days, compared with just 4% of married women of the same age, more than a fourfold difference. This gap holds even after accounting for financial status and demographics, such as age and race. And it’s not simply about having a man in the house. Men’s commitment matters. Cohabiting women are more than twice as likely as married women to feel unsafe, and 9% say their partner doesn’t help much with safety, compared with 2% of married women.
Left-leaning teens less interested in parenthood
Something is going on with American teenagers. A decades-long survey of 12th graders asked teens about their ideal number of children. For most of the survey’s history, left-leaning and right-leaning teens reported wanting kids at similar rates. But in recent years, teens who identify as “liberal” or “very liberal” have become less certain, increasingly responding that “zero” is their ideal. Data from this decade show that just 67% of liberal-identifying teens say they want at least one child, compared to 90% of their conservative peers.
Data Show Happy Wives on Both Sides
The latest dispatches from today’s internet-driven “Gender War” often suggest that one ideological side has happier marriages than the other. The data tell a more interesting story. In research published in 2019 in the New York Times we found that wives at both ends of the ideological spectrum —liberal and conservative—reported higher relationship quality than those in the middle. A new analysis of 2016–2024 General Social Survey finds a similar story for today’s wives: both conservative and liberal wives are significantly happier than wives in the middle. The common thread isn't ideology—it’s expectation. Both feminism and faith hold husbands and fathers to a high standard of engagement. Where men meet that standard, marriages flourish and wives are happier. The worldview matters less than the devotion it demands.
Teens increasingly say having lots of money is important
In 1976, just 36% of 12th-grade girls said having lots of money was “quite” or “extremely” important in their lives, compared to 55% of teen boys, according to data from the Monitoring the Future study. Over the next 15 years, both boys and girls increasingly reported that being wealthy was important to them. After a plateau through the 2000s, the reported importance of money is again on the rise. In 2024, three-quarters of 12th-grade boys and girls said having lots of money was important to them. Concern for cash tracks broader life priority shifts among teen girls, who also marked “correcting inequalities” and having time for hobbies as important in their lives at higher rates than past generations of teen girls did.
States with expensive housing have lower fertility
The US fertility rate hit a record low in 2025. But fertility rates vary significantly across states, ranging from under 1.4 children per woman in states like Vermont and Oregon to over 1.9 in Nebraska and South Dakota. IFS’s Family Structure Index found that housing affordability explains 25% of this variation in total fertility rates, rising to 31% when outliers California and Hawaii are excluded. Expensive housing suppresses fertility by creating budget constraints, shifting young families into smaller housing, and driving the migration of families to more affordable areas. IFS senior fellow Lyman Stone offers one solution to the fertility decline: build family-friendly housing.
Fewer high school boys expect to attend college
Girls began outpacing boys in college degree attainment in the 1980s. This disparity is reflected in the Monitoring the Future survey of high school seniors, which asked whether 12th grade boys and girls expected to attend college. By 2010, 12th grade girls reported that they expected to go to college at a 7-percentage-point higher rate than their male peers. The gap has substantially widened since then. Expectations for attending college have fallen dramatically among graduating senior boys since 2016. In 2024, 66% of 12th grade boys expected to attend college, compared to 82% of 12th grade girls.
Declining homeownership among Americans
Homeownership has fallen dramatically across all ages over the past four decades. In 1980, 58% of 30-year-old Americans owned their home, and by age 50, nearly 80% of Americans would own their home. Homeownership has considerably declined since then. In 2000, 43% of 30-year-olds owned their home, and by 2025, just 30% owned their home. These declines persist into middle-age, with only 63% of 50-year-olds owning their home in 2025. While much of this decline is explained by falling marriage rates, even married adults are less likely to own their home: in 1980, 89% of married adults aged 50 owned their home, compared to 79% in 2025.
