For decades, the topic of marriage has always been controversial. From large ceremonies to simple courthouse weddings, to whose family should contribute the most money or pay for the bridal gown, the topic of marriage poses many questions. While most discussions can be resolved amicably, a recent Instagram trend has added a new controversial question: should your marriage come before your children?
Back in October, Kaitlin Klimmer made an Instagram post with her unpopular opinion: My marriage doesn’t come before my kids.
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