Kailah Brewer always wanted to have two children. She and her husband both grew up in large families and felt like their resources were stretched thin. Her parents couldn't help her buy her first car or assist with college funds, she said.
But when the Brewers started talking family planning, two kids felt manageable. And especially after her oldest, 5-year-old Kailo Brewer, was diagnosed with autism, she wanted him to have a sibling to grow up with and to help support him as an adult, after his parents are gone.
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