One of my all-time favorite quotes (as it specifically relates to relationships) is “people change and forget to tell each other.” I believe that, one of the greatest causes of divorce is folks thinking that their spouse — and themselves — are going to (and even should) remain the same way they were on their wedding day. Marriage doesn’t work like that. Life doesn’t work like that.
And that’s why I think it’s super important — critical even — that married couples take marital inventory. Honestly, a few times a year is wise. But at least try to do it once a year.